Revel in Rejection: An Anti-Valentines Day Primer

Valentine’s Day is a special day for couples in love - but it doesn’t have to be! For those who prefer to go against the grain and celebrate an anti-Valentine’s Day instead, there are plenty of ways to make sure it’s still full of joy. Here are a few suggestions on how to celebrate an anti-Valentine’s Day with joy and abundance.

Start by setting an intention for the day. An anti-Valentine’s Day should not be about feeling down and alone - it can be about celebrating freedom, self-love and generative joy. Visualize yourself going through the day with confidence and joy and make sure to keep this mindset front and center all day long.

Plan activities that bring you joy. On an anti-Valentine’s Day, you can make the most of the day and do things that bring you joy. Take yourself on a date to your favorite restaurant or go see a movie. Spend time with friends, get yourself a gift, or take a day trip to somewhere new. It’s up to you - the point is to remind yourself of the joys of being single and having the freedom to do whatever you want.

Express yourself. No matter if you're celebrating anti-Valentine’s Day, expressing yourself creatively will make the day more meaningful and enjoyable. Write poetry or paint a picture that conveys your feelings about the day. This is a great way to let yourself vent and be honest about your emotions.

Give yourself a pampering session. On anti-Valentine’s Day, treat yourself to a luxurious spa experience. Firstly, be sure to book a massage session from Al’s Muscle Maintenance. This in-home experience can be the start to the best Valentine’s Day of your life! A little while after your massage, take a hot bath with essential oils, or enjoy some yoga or meditation. Take time to do something that makes you feel good - and be sure to spoil yourself with a special treat or two.

Finally, take time to reflect on how far you’ve come since last Valentine’s Day. Celebrate the journey and the lessons you’ve learned along the way. Gratitude is a powerful emotion and one that can really lift your mood and bring you joy. Don’t worry if this actually becomes an entire weeks’ event; nothing wrong with that once in a while, is there?

Overall, going against the grain and celebrating an anti-Valentine's Day can be a great way to appreciate the joys of being single and the freedom to do whatever you please. With some thoughtful planning and setting of intentions, it can be a day full of beautiful memories, creativity, and abundance. Embrace the opportunity to do something different and make the most of your single status. Whether it's a day of self-care, a night out with friends, or a solo adventure, make it a day to remember.